If you ask me to define a woman, I won't say she has more estrogen(E), no, she just has less testosterone(T). If having more estrogen makes you crazy and beautiful at the same time, then maybe the less testosterone is what makes you tough and soft, weak and strong and all the other crap that we cannot understand about you.
I'd like to think the same is true for men. If the higher T makes us more violent, the lesser E is what brings out the human side to us. So if you think about it, its a synchronized dance of sorts. E & T in perfect balance.
But if you think more about it, there is a chance that 'compatibility' with your partner is finding the % of E/T that you lack, in them. Or simply put, find the right kind of crazy, who you feel comfortable being crazy with. Much like puzzle pieces, having tabs and blanks. Find the right piece that you would fit with perfectly.
Most often you end up with the piece that seems to fit you. There might be a small misfit at one corner or little discomfort in the fit. We tend to look over these minor defects, but only till the rest of puzzle locks itself together. Once the big picture gets more clearer, we let go of the misfit and settle down at our right place, waiting for all the other pieces to fall in together.
Sometimes we look for it sometimes we carry on with the rest of the puzzle. But that perfect fit will somehow find its way to you. It could be in the near future or it could be the final piece, but the puzzle is never complete without it.
Btw, what about the puzzle pieces having all tabs or all blanks? my God what was I thinking. Puzzles were a bad example. But then again, if you take a puzzle piece having all blanks or all tabs, its not always easy to find the right matching piece, but not impossible either.
Cheers !
I'd like to think the same is true for men. If the higher T makes us more violent, the lesser E is what brings out the human side to us. So if you think about it, its a synchronized dance of sorts. E & T in perfect balance.
But if you think more about it, there is a chance that 'compatibility' with your partner is finding the % of E/T that you lack, in them. Or simply put, find the right kind of crazy, who you feel comfortable being crazy with. Much like puzzle pieces, having tabs and blanks. Find the right piece that you would fit with perfectly.
Most often you end up with the piece that seems to fit you. There might be a small misfit at one corner or little discomfort in the fit. We tend to look over these minor defects, but only till the rest of puzzle locks itself together. Once the big picture gets more clearer, we let go of the misfit and settle down at our right place, waiting for all the other pieces to fall in together.
Sometimes we look for it sometimes we carry on with the rest of the puzzle. But that perfect fit will somehow find its way to you. It could be in the near future or it could be the final piece, but the puzzle is never complete without it.
Btw, what about the puzzle pieces having all tabs or all blanks? my God what was I thinking. Puzzles were a bad example. But then again, if you take a puzzle piece having all blanks or all tabs, its not always easy to find the right matching piece, but not impossible either.
Cheers !
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