Nope, absolutely not. We've been fed with the wrong information over signs and signals for long. But, ladies and gentlemen, let me tell you, over the past few years, i have learnt there is no signal, there are no signs. None!!
Please don't have the wrong notion that this is a rant becoz of my failure to read signals. Oh i read them very well and thats why this blog. The reason i'm saying ther's no such thing is becoz, it can change any minute. They say "the future changes, everytime you see it. Its becoz u see it and that changes the future", yes its from a movie, no its not an Indian movie.
Now back to the point. There must have been a lot of encounters, with these so called, signals, from the people you admire, sometimes from a distance, sometimes a bit close. But, no matter whatsoever, there is no such thing called a signal or a sign (yes i'm saying the same thing again)
Let me elaborate. I have seen boys who go crazy becoz the girl (while gazing into a crowd of 100) saw him once. I have seen girls who sit and drool, just becoz that guy she likes, smiled at her in the queue (of over a 50 people, atleast) at the counter. What we perceive here is, "maybe he/she likes me as well" but the fact is "he/she don't even care about you unless u man up (help me out here, i don't know the word for women) and actually start talking with the person".
No, i don't wanna deviate from my topic. Where were we, oh yeah! no signals. So, we misinterpret these random gestures of courtesy. I strongly suggest that we don't. Its not gonna work, sitting and dreaming.
Okay, now, lets say they were even true. So what, when you go tell him/her that you have read their signal right, do u seriously think they're gonna say "wow, u did???" (well they do in movies, out of question, in real life people have real ego :P ). In real life they wudn't dare accept that you have caught their signal right. So whats the point of even trying to interpret it. Just think of this, if u get it wrong, its wrong; if you get it right, still its gonna be wrong. Come on!!
Now, the end. If u want to sit and read signals and signs, u'l end up single forever, and get caught in the Indian arranged marriage market. If u decide that u've met ur man/woman already, and u think they send out a signal for you to reach out to them, then do it. Reach out and start talking (never mention sh*t about their signals, makes them look weak). This way, if they like you they're gonna continue talking wit you, and if they don't they'l just give u BS and ignore you. Either way, u have a result in your hand (so you can start searching for ur next soulmate :P) and u've still kept your dignity (thanks to, not mentioning your misinterpretation of signals, phew!)
Signals, they might be genuine, they might be for you and you only. But unless u reach out to the person and talk, u're never gonna get along with them. So, instead of sitting and dreaming, walk over and talk (oh btw!! boys, beware of eve-teasing cases and harassment lawsuits :P ) Cheers..!!!
Please don't have the wrong notion that this is a rant becoz of my failure to read signals. Oh i read them very well and thats why this blog. The reason i'm saying ther's no such thing is becoz, it can change any minute. They say "the future changes, everytime you see it. Its becoz u see it and that changes the future", yes its from a movie, no its not an Indian movie.
Now back to the point. There must have been a lot of encounters, with these so called, signals, from the people you admire, sometimes from a distance, sometimes a bit close. But, no matter whatsoever, there is no such thing called a signal or a sign (yes i'm saying the same thing again)
Let me elaborate. I have seen boys who go crazy becoz the girl (while gazing into a crowd of 100) saw him once. I have seen girls who sit and drool, just becoz that guy she likes, smiled at her in the queue (of over a 50 people, atleast) at the counter. What we perceive here is, "maybe he/she likes me as well" but the fact is "he/she don't even care about you unless u man up (help me out here, i don't know the word for women) and actually start talking with the person".
No, i don't wanna deviate from my topic. Where were we, oh yeah! no signals. So, we misinterpret these random gestures of courtesy. I strongly suggest that we don't. Its not gonna work, sitting and dreaming.
Okay, now, lets say they were even true. So what, when you go tell him/her that you have read their signal right, do u seriously think they're gonna say "wow, u did???" (well they do in movies, out of question, in real life people have real ego :P ). In real life they wudn't dare accept that you have caught their signal right. So whats the point of even trying to interpret it. Just think of this, if u get it wrong, its wrong; if you get it right, still its gonna be wrong. Come on!!
Now, the end. If u want to sit and read signals and signs, u'l end up single forever, and get caught in the Indian arranged marriage market. If u decide that u've met ur man/woman already, and u think they send out a signal for you to reach out to them, then do it. Reach out and start talking (never mention sh*t about their signals, makes them look weak). This way, if they like you they're gonna continue talking wit you, and if they don't they'l just give u BS and ignore you. Either way, u have a result in your hand (so you can start searching for ur next soulmate :P) and u've still kept your dignity (thanks to, not mentioning your misinterpretation of signals, phew!)
Signals, they might be genuine, they might be for you and you only. But unless u reach out to the person and talk, u're never gonna get along with them. So, instead of sitting and dreaming, walk over and talk (oh btw!! boys, beware of eve-teasing cases and harassment lawsuits :P ) Cheers..!!!
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