I'm gonna give this to you plain and simple. She won't understand ur thoughts/ideas. She only understands your feelings. Her brain is not wired that way. U can lie 'I love u' and she'll go 'awwww!' U can say the truth 'Lionel's footwork is out of the world' and she'l go 'why wud I even care!!'. This is why the wrong guys with the right set of words can impress a girl rather than the right guy with truth filled in their hearts and their tongues (or maybe not their hearts, lets say minds) coz feelings are best expressed with words.
U cannot expect her to understand ur passion, goals, aim or anything remotely related to these things. (But if she says she does, she just loves u so much that she chose to ignore the differences over these stuff). Main reason for this is, she thinks she's being practical wit u, which she cannot. A girl can never be practical. All her thoughts are based on emotions. Emotion by its definition is not practical.
In the end if ur big dream does come true, she'd say she just wanted to give a fair warning. And if it didn't, she'd say 'I told u to be more practical' sounds diplomatic but it’s not. To be diplomatic u need to hav that one thing in mind. So obviously a girl cannot be diplomatic coz she has a zillion things running in her mind at any given time.
So wht is it. How can she give such cute answers dat make u agree to her, no matter if u're right or wrong? One, coz she's cute and u luv her for it, ur mind wud choose to see her dat way even if she's picking her nose.
And two, coz her mind works in a funny way, where the same scenario occuring in two different time periods, have the tendency to produce two completely different emotions, conclusions, reactions and/or judgment.
Let me prove my theory with an example. U're going to meet her, on the way u see her fav burger joint and u buy two for the both of u. U give them to her, she opens the pack and goes 'but I never like burgers, where's my favorite chicken' then u go 'but dat day u loved those burgers' and she goes 'but it was DAT DAY'
Wait it’s not over yet, couple months later u go to meet her again. This time u bought her favorite chicken. She opens the pack and goes 'u didn't get me my favorite burger'. Now u go 'but dat day u said u luvd only the chicken and not the burgers' and she goes 'but it was DAT DAY' see wht I mean?
This is the same reason why she'd get mad at her frnd for breaking up with his/her gf/bf. She'l keep saying whtever the frnd did was not right and they must'v tried to patch up again. But when she breaks up with her boyfriend she thinks she's not like her friend and she has a valid reason for the breakup (well girls, everyone does hav a valid reason) and she thinks it’s totally right wht she did (right or wrong is not the point of argument here)
My question is. If wht u did was right how do u blame ur frnd wrong for the same reason. And if wht they did was not right. How come u do the same thing and somehow it seems right to u? Well dat question (and this whole blog) is for the boys.
So, boys, its becoz of the theory I said before. Same scenario, two different conclusions/emotions/reactions. It’s completely natural with a girl and ther's no point being mad at her for this reason. Its ur loss not hers. Coz she was created this way and ther's no changing it. She can try but she cannot change her basic nature, which is, being feminine.
That is why women can drive autos, heavy bikes, sports cars or even planes. But they still wud be bad drivers and we wud never stop loving them coz that’s how we were created..!
Cheers..!!